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Honoring the Unique – The Life Story Project at Sanford

I visited Seattle recently, and stayed in a hostel for the first time. When I got home, I struggled to describe my trip. โ€œMy perspective is a little different now,โ€ I said.   Different names for the same place… honoring the unique, dynamic, peculiar, and predictable In truth, all of our experiences shift our worldview […]

Clever Addicted Brain – Sabotaged when Contemplating Change

  My favorite scene in the movie Jurassic Park doesn’t end well. The Australian park ranger is hunting raptors and one of the creatures rattles the fronds in front of him. While he prepares for the kill shot, another raptor sneaks up from behind. The ranger is eaten alive, but not before uttering the unforgettable […]

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I Knew I Was an Alcoholic Long Before I Quit Drinking….

I knew I was an alcoholic long before I finally put the alcohol down. ย I knew this because I became emotionally dependent and would use a drink to satisfy everything. ย Coming home from work I would slam the bottle of wine on the counter and tell myself that I deserved a drink. ย Whether I had […]

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How to Be a (Sober) Legend in Your Own Lifetime…

  You know the saying โ€˜The only constant is changeโ€™? I know itโ€™s a terrible cliche, but boy is it true.   Iโ€™ve been noticing this recently with regards to my emotional and physical health. I get in a good rhythm with things and Iโ€™m firing on all cylinders being happy and healthy and I […]

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The Brain and Body Healing Effects of a Sober Tropical Vacation

  I returned recently from a five-day, sober tropical vacation in Puerto Rico. To put the result into the proper perspective, I missed my connecting flight on the way home. I couldn’t muster enough rancor to be snippy to the customer service representative who rerouted me.   What, Me Worry? My originating flight was an […]

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Mummies’ Night Out – Booze Soaked World

  I went out with a bunch of girlfriends last night. A big group of us mummies hitting the town for dinner and a comedy show. Pretty unusual for me to be out and about in town – let alone on a Wednesday night! – but yes it definitely happened.   Walking through town I […]

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