Who Needs Botox? 4 Reasons Sober is Beautiful Inside and Out

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Who needs Botox? Healthy is BEAUTIFUL!


I work for Sanford Behavioral Health in Grand Rapids. Michigan, and my job gives me a bird’s eye overview of our patients in recovery. I don’t see them every day, which means I am privy to the cumulative effect recovery can have on a person’s overall look. And what a difference even a week can make!


I say it to our patients in treatment all the time, “You look great!” The difference between the way someone looks when they arrive at a Sanford facility and how they look when they leave is marked. I can describe it in four words eyes, hair, skin, health. I’ll be honest, folks arriving at Sanford look like empty casings. They have lost all their color. It’s like someone has taken a big pink eraser and rubbed out their vital force.


Substance use disorder (SUD) takes its toll in many ways, and it is wonderful to see the restoration that takes place in recovery. Even a week of consistent eating, exercise, evidence-based practices, safety, and abstinence and miracles begin to happen. Inside and out.


Here’s Why Sober is Beautiful


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We get this question all the time, “If I quit drinking/using will the bags under my eyes go away?”


In the early days of sobriety, the eyes are still bloodshot, and the whites are yellowed.

This is because alcohol and other drugs dilate the small veins in the eyes, causing them to leak. Alcohol and drugs also cause the blood vessels in your eyes to expand, making them more prominent. Yellowing of the whites is a side effect of a compromised liver – the result of long term substance use. Puffiness, bags, and dark circles around the eyes are caused by lack of sleep, bad circulation, water retention, and overall poor health.


Clear, sober eyes with snowy whites are gorgeous!  And clear eyes signify good health and well-being. No amount of eye drops can create the effect. When you quit drinking the dark circles under your eyes will come back to life. Once you are sober and clear eyed, you can keep your eyes in shape with Vitamins C, E, A and Zinc. Fruits like strawberries and mangoes; veggies like spinach and carrots; zinc-rich meats like turkey and chicken; and yogurt, nuts, and seeds; all feed the pretty peepers you want to have. Think “orange” for eyes – oranges, carrots and apricots.



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Our residents often ask to get their “hair done”. A fresh haircut can be better than Botox to lift the spirits!


Alcohol causes hair loss. Substance use disorders produce brittle fright-wigs!

One of the things that is universal to addiction is lank hair. There are many reasons why alcohol impacts hair texture and shine. Heavy drinkers and drug users rarely have a balanced diet; alcohol is a diuretic, and hair is like a tissue that needs constant nourishment and hydration. Alcohol raises estrogen levels and elevated estrogen causes hair loss.


Also, alcohol misuse lowers levels of zinc and vitamins B and C. These are essential elements for healthy hair growth. Likewise, drinking alcohol causes folic acid to drop. Folic acid is vital for strong hair follicles. But it is wonderful to see the confidence come back when people stop drinking/using and have hair regrowth. For gorgeous locks, eat your leafy greens. Drink lots of water and eat foods rich in zinc, like Brussels sprouts, citrus fruits, avocado, and okra.



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Essential oils, Botox and fillers? Try sobriety first for the health and beauty benefits.


Sallow, puffy or red skin? Check, Check, and Check.

It’s not nice to abuse your liver. Drug and alcohol use is very hard on the organ that filters and processes the blood as it circulates through the body. Also, alcohol depletes nutrition and electrolytes and steals good hydration from the body. Broken blood vessels, rosacea, red spots, wrinkles, puffiness and dryness are only a few of the maladies substance use can cause.


If you want to put the glow back in your sober skin, start with the inside (and the obvious). Health is wealth for beautiful skin and although a facial helps with enlarged pores and puffy eyes, there is no substitute for clean living. Avoid caffeine, processed foods, and sugar. Exercise, lots of water and sleep helps your skin. Add a cocktail of Vitamins A and C, Calcium, and fish oil or flaxseed oil, and you can see the difference with those bright and shining eyes you now have. Sobriety makes you beautiful.




A lot of what I have described about drug and alcohol consumption is not rocket science, but it is health science. When we are actively using, we tend to forget the simple rules of good health and beauty. It is a beautiful sight when someone has quit drinking/using and their hair has grown back, their eyes are bright, skin is glowing, and they feel good. Look in the mirror and see for yourself. Who needs Botox? Sobriety makes you healthier and more attractive inside and out naturally.


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Marilyn Spiller is a writer, sober coach, recovery advocate, and student of the world (she also holds a BA in English). Nine years sober herself, she penned one of the first sobriety blogs, "Waking Up the Ghost" in 2013. The blog garnered an international following, allowing Marilyn to communicate with thousands of folks in all stages of recovery. Marilyn is Sanford's Director of Marketing and serves as Editor-In-Chief for the Sanford online magazine, Excursions. She also developed and hosts the podcast Anatomy of Addiction and is Vice President of the Board, JACK Mental Health Advocacy.