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50 Things I Love About Sobriety (Don’t Even Get Me Started…)

  Yes, I love just about everything associated with sobriety (even though, being a grownup can be a little difficult at timesโ€ฆ). Let me count the ways. I love: The mornings My hair, nails and skin Having a memory Not being afraid or regretful of what I rememberโ€ฆ The free time No bags under my […]

Screening and Assessment in Addiction Treatment

  There are two familiar terms in the addiction treatment field – “screening”ย  and “assessmentโ€. But do most people seeking treatment know the differences between these two processes? Or why screening and assessment are so important to the diagnosis and development of specific treatment recommendations? Screening, and assessment can also enhance positive recovery outcomes.   […]

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Sober Sex Part Two: Who is this Stranger in My Bed?

  When I look back at the two men I dated in the lacuna after my divorce and before I quit drinking, I actually have trouble imagining I was a participant.ย The choices I made in romantic partners, seemed to be based on how different they were from my ex-husbandย and how bad they were for me. […]

A Clean, Well-Lighted Sanford House

  For some reason, whenever I look back on my first visit to Sanford House, I am reminded of the Hemingway short story โ€œA Clean, Well-Lighted Place.โ€ Which is weird when you think about it, because Iโ€™m not an old, deaf man and Sanford House is not a cafรฉ and I no longer drink brandy […]

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Sober Sex Part One: Inhibited and Tongue Tied

  I have a confession to make. I felt sexier when I was drinking. That is not to say I was sexier when I was drunk, but I felt more attractive. And as a single woman, there is no question I was more daring, friendlier and more approachable. I havenโ€™t had a drink in over […]

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